on one of my lasts posts, most of the people that answered agreed with the idea I’m on the spectrum. I don’t know. I don’t see anything wrong being myself.

I’d just like some serious answers from neurotypicals explaining to me why my question triggered my coworker so much:

Manager called me to ask if I can take an extra shift at a different unit because they’re short staffed due to illness. I agreed.

Because that unit sometimes overfills and nurses there have to take care of more patients than the ratio agreed with the union I called the unit to ask how many patients they do have today, to have an idea if my shift tomorrow is going to be an easy or a difficult one.

The coworker started yelling and calling me an idiot and using some other choice words, so I said “ok” and hung up.

I didn’t yell at her, I simply asked the question in a neutral tone, and I still don’t get the animosity.

20 minutes later the same person calls to inform she called our manager and tomorrow I don’t have to work at that unit.

All this stupid drama because I asked how many patients they have? I simply don’t get it.

Am I really this autistic?

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    10 hours ago

    So they’re disregarding things you explicitly stated “Because…” and inserting assumptions about your intentions that were not stated at all (that you didn’t want to work).

    Neurotypicals are so irrational.