Do people often blame you for their kids doing those things?
People might tell you about it because… you know… maybe they think you’re a friend or maybe they’re just venting or maybe they’re making small talk.
Parents often make the mistake of thinking everyone understands what it’s like. They’re trying to find common ground by sharing those struggles.
If you don’t like it, just channel the conversation to something you do like. That said, sometimes it’s just good to let people vent. People like talking about their kids, and it’s a sneaky way to ingratiate yourself to them.
Do people often blame you for their kids doing those things?
People might tell you about it because… you know… maybe they think you’re a friend or maybe they’re just venting or maybe they’re making small talk.
Parents often make the mistake of thinking everyone understands what it’s like. They’re trying to find common ground by sharing those struggles.
If you don’t like it, just channel the conversation to something you do like. That said, sometimes it’s just good to let people vent. People like talking about their kids, and it’s a sneaky way to ingratiate yourself to them.
Think of it more like someone complaining that they lost money on crypto trading.
It’s very Billy Crystal SNL “oh I hate when that happens”