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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/GeishaTwink on 2023-10-09 02:43:20.

I made a confession here a few days ago about an act of intimacy ending abruptly when I called my partner “daddy”. Within a few hours, I received a bunch of messages that made a very strong case that he was probably married and cheating.

I decided to pursue the accusation raised by many redditors here because it was gnawing at me. I went back to the app, narrowed my preferences as much as possible, and swiped for hours until I got to his profile again to make a right swipe.

In my mind, I hoped and hoped and hoped that he would have cooled down and forgiven me. But I wasn’t sure if he would ever see my profile again since he was only here for work. Then today, I got a ping that we had matched. Apparently he just landed back in town for work and wanted to see if I would like to meet again. I was able to apologize for my daddy outburst and he accepted my apology.

However, before I could say yes to his invitation, I HAD to ask him what other redditors thought: the possibility that he was married and cheating. I don’t know why I couldn’t just leave well enough alone. Apparently, the accusation, without proof, was super offensive and he told me to “get f*cked” before our conversation disappeared.

I’m pretty sure he blocked me for insulting him a second time. So there will be no more part 3 to this sadness. Since I confessed here originally, I figure I’d provide a quick follow-up to the debacle.

TL;DR: I accused a man of cheating after he gave me a second chance, and I got the boot a second and (very likely) final time.