Some friends I just can’t shake

hard enough

around the neck

with a firm grip

  • KredeSeraf@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    You know, there’s so many people I have tried this with. They just won’t stop bringing it up even when it is completely unrelated to what we’re doing. One of them told me he feels smart because when that comes up I usually walk away to avoid the endless drama and he took that to mean that his position and opinions had so confounded me that leaving was my only way to respond.

    Stuff like “yeah I think religion should be enshrined in the Constitution and everyone should have to live by our rules” and “if women don’t want to have kids they should keep their legs closed”.

    Like, even if I thought engaging had any chance of working it’s just such braindead regurgitated Fox talking points that I wouldn’t engage anyway. Just waiting for these people to get everything they want and suffer for it.

    • BringMeTheDiscoKing@lemmy.ca
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      9 months ago

      A distressing number of people seem to have inhibition problems.

      A further distressing number are narcissists.

      We shouldn’t be surprised though, that’s exactly how they were programmed. The more it became acceptable to pander to our baser instincts, the more profitable it became and the more profit driven concerns did it. The more screen time we had in our upbringing (back when we called it ‘tv’) the more likely we are to have taken on the programming of exceptionalism and decide that what’s good for everyone isn’t what’s good for us.

      I don’t necessarily think it was planned that way, but the people who thought that it might be the result were relegated to the fringe.