- 6 Posts
- 75 Comments
I’ve been harassed, yelled at, and insulted by women in the women’s room, but at least they never physically assaulted me. I don’t know if I could count on the men in the men’s room not to do the same and I’d rather not take the chance. I remember a story about a trans woman who was killed in the men’s room and it still gives me chills thinking about it.
I usually go in the women’s room because people clock me more feminine than masc. Men’s room is very risky because they might not care but they might also be violent. If the bathroom is busy I pee sitting down so no one sees my feet facing the wrong way, I don’t really like it and it feels awkward to do which is why I pee standing up when it’s not busy or no one else is in there. I have been caught a few times and the women gave me shit for it, though it was always yelling, chastising, or slurs, they never got violent with me. Most violent one got was grabbing my ear and escorting me out of the bathroom. I don’t know if I could trust the men to do the same. I heard a story of a trans woman who was physically and sexually assaulted and murdered in a men’s room. That story is very much burned into my mind.
I usually try to avoid public bathrooms in general but lately that’s been harder.
That’s what I usually do. Some people get mad or annoyed with me but I imagine it could be physically dangerous to go into the men’s room.
When you’re Nonbinary every bathroom feels like this, not because you don’t know which is which but because you don’t know which choice is more wrong or will get you in more trouble.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Place to post videos to share on Lemmy?English4·4 months agoIf you want to share videos I recommend !videos@lemmy.world or possibly !videos@sh.itjust.works. Both great communities to share videos, either ones uploaded to Lemmy (though probably not allowed or recommended by all servers) or on services like Peertube and YouTube.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksOPto egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Egg_IRL6·5 months agoI’m glad you like it. It really is an awesome comic.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Surf is a "Social Browser" App From FlipboardEnglish2·6 months agoDo you maybe mind sharing your APK with VirusTotal score so that people who want to try it can do so without giving their email away?
Why do people get her name wrong so often? Is there something I’m missing?
I smoked weed when I was a teen and I turned out just fine. My brother didn’t and he still failed in grades and got himself kicked out of school over a girl. The thing about marijuana screwing up your brain is a lie pushed by the government to try and make people afraid of something that is otherwise harmless.
Some people (idiots) say it made me queer (nonbinary) or mentally ill (therian) but I always was those things long before I started smoking. It was only years after I smoked that I came out of the closet.
yellow
Wouldn’t you lose the fur from your ears and tail though>
They mean those cute fuzzy ears like what catgirls have
Yes I know catboys have them too, and that there are ones of the NonBinary variety (I’m one of those).
Would probably be like a sphinx cat or those hairless dogs.
I choose 1, 4, 8.
1 and 8 helps with my species dysphoria and 4 is $20, can’t pass up 20 bucks man.
I also don’t really see the benefit of the others to me.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg_irl [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]2·1 year agoCan I sell mine in exchange to be a neko and have cute cat ears, a tail, and whiskers? As a therian who gets very bad species dysphoria I’d very much love that.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.ca•only thing i ever wearEnglish2·2 years agoThat sounds really hard, I personally don’t even like wearing long sleeves (feels uncomfortable for me) unless it’s below zero (Celsius, though it’s not a hard limit and some days even if it’s well below it feels hot an uncomfortable to wear long sleeves), so I couldn’t even imagine how uncomfortable wearing a hoodie would feel in very hot weather (though I’m not really the biggest fan of hoodies to begin with, sleeveless ones are kind of Okay though).
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Egg👩⚖️irlEnglish3·2 years agoI don’t think I get it.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.ca•I just want a button that has 100% of becoming a girlEnglish1·2 years agoWell it seems like there’s only 1 button, with 99% chance of money and 1% chance of gender-swap, and the person was advocating to keep pressing it until hitting the 1%
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg_irlEnglish3·2 years agoMe except it’s mostly species dysphoria instead of gender dysphoria.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg_irl2·2 years agoI just want to say, as a therian I really don’t like how people try and use “identifying as animals” to put down trans people, species dysphoria is indeed real and I even experience it occasionally, I also do experience gender dysphoria so I can say they are absolutely not the same, they have similarities but aren’t the same.
Hey pal, FYI not all NonBinary experiences are the same. I commented sharing my experience. If your experience is different, you could’ve just said that instead of being rude or trying to say I’m wrong for feeling the way I do.