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Cake day: July 15th, 2025

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    1. It’s fine where it’s at?
    2. YPTB is a cesspool of drama blown out of proportion / “look at me, I’m such a victim!!”. Last time I looked (I blocked that community), it was mostly just a bunch of frequent flyers not realizing they’re the problem being circle-jerked in the comments by other people who are frequently and properly modded. To make a decision to move based on that, especially given the provided post is from someone who always seems to be involved in some kind of drama + a mod who gets a regular 15 minutes of hate over nothing (and people flat-out making up narratives to make them the victim) seems like a flimsy excuse.
    3. Looking at your alts, the most likely candidate instances for the new community would be dbzer0 or anarchist nexus, both of which I’ve blocked and neither of which I particularly like (blocked them for a reason).
    4. It’ll add yet another dead community to the community list that looks like "[Closed - moved to…]

    If you want to make a new community elsewhere, go for it. But instead of closing this one, find someone else to take it over.




















  • I can’t speak for your situation, but I do know of too many examples of marriages “just because” that made both partners completely miserable for decades. And their disgust at each other definitely was not good for the kid to grow up around.

    If she’s someone you could see spending your life with, just not right now, then it’s worth considering. But either way, I would advise against agreeing to a shotgun wedding.