I have an instance of Gitea that I use to mirror stuff.

This worked for me: https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy-ui/issues/2113#issuecomment-1851978780

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Keep trying with home assistant. It’s the best in my opinion.

Jimmy Neutron got game.

Tailscale would allow you access to everything inside your network without having it publicly accessible. I highly recommend that since you are new to security.