2FA and ad free links for podcasts. I already pay for an ad free experience on Spotify, and sometimes I’ll pay to support someone on Patreon, but I can’t use their link to even just remove the ads the podcast itself issues. I’m not sure where the ads come from every time but it feels like I’m being had.

But ad free music is worth the price, which I was buying before they even hosted pods so it’s hard to complain too much.

There’s no way I’m going to read all of that but I scanned it and caught a “I have many gay friends” and said ayup, there it is.

Well it sounds like most of us really can’t! She’s probably just having a moment of irrationality as we all do from time to time. There’s probably something else going on but I doubt it’s worth it to try to figure it out.

Did she say why she was upset? Is she worried she’s eating too many? Just that she thought it was a prank and not nice?

I don’t think you’re an AH, but it does sound like your wife might be insecure about how much chocolate she’s been eating. I’m picturing her telling herself “I’ll let myself eat this much but then I’m back on a diet!” Or something to that effect. Then come to learn you’ve been foiling her plan in the background. Which is also something someone who is insecure about stuff might not want to say: that they are on a diet or worried about eating too much.

All just a bunch of assuming.

Thank you for this labor of love

Which is fine because you can join another.