Thanks for the input! That is an excellent starting point and brings up questions I had not even properly thought about!

I thought he was just a home pooper.

Use anti diarrhea medication, for example Loperamide, it’s available in every normal pharmacy (found it in France and Germany, no idea where you are). It will basically numb all your muscles in your gut and it will become impossible to poop.

For three days that should be fine, but you should reduce your food volume a bit.

This is unhealthy and stupid!!! But it works and is not crazy dangerous for your body.

P.S.:I guess you should just overcome your social fears and poop like a normal person.