thelongshot93@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is it possible for a human being to attain lasting happiness (without drugs)?
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1 year agoThanks for this. Went and read the whole thing and it’s beautiful!
Thanks for this. Went and read the whole thing and it’s beautiful!
And it’s not like we haven’t let towns die before. There’s so many along railroads in the middle of nowhere that just stopped existing because people didn’t need to take trains everywhere anymore.
I’ve had this happen quite a few times to me, and I’ve come to the best question for this.
“Do you want to just vent or would you like advice?”
Some people just need to get it off their chest and talk to something, IT professionals call this The Rubber Duck Effect, helps them work through the problem by explaining it to someone else. Asking if they’d like advice or just vent lets you know what kinds of questions to ask. You do still need to be listening but hopefully this helps!
Shotgun applications to everyone in the field you want to go into, you might end up with your dream job, and know you can find something else should you not like the job you’re in, but give it a fair shot before you decide to jump ship.