• badelf@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Actually intelligent, reads books, sense of humor, actually listens.

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      I love my ereader but I miss the days when you could actually see what someone was reading. It was like a book recommending a person

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        Someone reading a book doesn’t mean the book is good.

        I have a book written by a mentally ill person I met, just because I wanted to have more insight into his mental state.

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          “good” book is highly subjective. It depends not only on your tastes but also on your general mood while reading it. Same for film and art. I saw the Mona Lisa in person and was completely unimpressed.

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        You don’t measure it. You compare it to your own intelligence and see if it matches.

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        1 year ago

        Excellent question. For me, it has a lot to do with their sense of humor, general outlook, and their problem solving. ymmv

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        When they say it. If somebody says “I’m very smart” or “I’m very intelligent”, you know the answer.

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          The flawed metric racists use to claim they are somehow superior?

          There is a reason why it isn’t standard practice and only covers certain topics. It can measure some general knowledge, but is in no way indictment to the actual intelligence of a person.

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            Yes I know the origins of IQ Tests and how it was used for justifying eugenics in USA and how Hitler got inspired by it. But I ment it as a joke to the original asking how to measure intelligence. And anyway who believes in a number on piece of paper we all only believe in how much upvotes we can get on Lemmy.

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              some healthy self-deprecation is definitely nice, but the eldritch implications of somebody representing their intelligence as convertible to a temperature value transgressing thermodynamic law intrigue me more.

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            I’m theoretically Mensa qualified but when I met some I turned away. My sense of what’s fun and creative did not align. At all.