If nothing else, this justifies OP’s Wife’s insecurities. Clearly OP’s parents think she’s too low class for them. This should be a wake up call for OP.

Yes. Yes there are.

You have it the wrong way round… she’s gone 4 days of the month. So the other 26 days she lives there and now has to share the room with kids significantly younger than her.

Exactly… the whole “give an inch, take a mile” thing would happen with them for sure.

NTA

This is some Class A entitlement from them. I wonder how Jake became the way he is…

OP is definitely TA. She knew the husband came into the marriage with baggage. She accepted his son by default when they married him.

I wonder how OP would feel if her husband excluded her son in the same way…

Only this wasn’t a case of the friend “forgetting.” This is the friend being a freeloader. OP’s plan worked well.

NTA

He was in a public place participating in a public protest. He is therefore subject to having his picture taken and posted.

He’s catching flack from friends, so rather than apologize and learn from this, he’s going after the photographer.

NTA

I agree with the OP, this does seem like a backhanded insult. If I were OP, this would make me reconsider things with the BF.

Omg the mental image this is creating is disturbing.

OP, make sure you look roommate right in the eye as you shit in their box!

NTA

If this is going on at OP’s house, I wonder what is happening in friend’s own home. Is she letting messes happen all over the place? Or is she using something diaper-like at home. In which case I’d be pissed if I were OP… that’s just being cheap and a major AH.